Hi guys, late reply but,
I was kind of just waiting and hoping the vhs would one day appear in the mailbox.
It seems now that I was blinded by my excessive hope and want for the tape.
When I found multiple people responding to me, I thought it was a given I had found a copy.
But it turns out they were all charlatans and unhonest people, except one that just stopped replying,
(He said he had a copy from the 80's, but thought it was in Swedish. We talked a bit about the scenes, and he thought he recognized what I was talking about )
Later I started asking for evidence, and then they just stopped replying immediately. I have now finally, sadly, deleted my add.
I might message that seemingly honest guy when I feel for it, but otherwise that's the end of it.
I still hope that someone on day finds a copy, that would be cool.
Cheers guys, and sorry for premature hope.