Okay, I shall make this clear once and for all, I should have done so long ago.
If someone doesn't play by the notes in this RP, that's someones problem. I'll do what I can do, I've made that promise. But if that isn't enough, then... well, tough luck. Go somewhere else.
There are other RPs out there which allow other things and events that this one does, so I'm not going to stand and feel guillty or bad for setting up the rules I have done.
This is how things are set, that's just the way it is. And I'm tired of having to repeat myself. If someone doesn't like that, someone should quit. Or join another RP that suit someones needs the better. That's what I would've done myself, if there weren't any solutions to the matter. Ofcourse, it's still very sad and boring to lose a player, I belive no GM wants that.
But I'm not messing things up any more, just because of one single matter.
All such matters should be discussed, and not interfeer with the gameplay.
It would seem though that atleast a majority are pleased with everything, which pleases me.
Therefor, it feels very sad to write something like this.