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1988 Theatrical Release / The original movie is on Netflix now!
« on: April 11, 2016, 01:52:04 AM »
Oh my God! Yay!
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In addition to what others have said, I suggest spending quiet time in introspection mode, asking yourself if each of these qualities mentioned are contributing positively or negatively to your true self. Take weight, for example. Unless you have a significant amount of lean muscle mass, 170 is probably not a healthy weight, but only a physician can truly assess that. Maintaining a healthy weight is a positive thing you're doing, then.Before when I was 170 I had no muscle mass, now that I'm 120... I do because I joined the swim team. Thank you, what you said really helped.
It's also a good idea to reevaluate relationships. Are some of these people your friends simply based on the clothes you wear, or the haircut you have? Chances are, those friendships are shallow and won't last after high school...but you know more about them than any of us here do, so that's something only you can do☺. When it comes to friendships, I'm about quality over quantity.
As far as family is concerned, that happens to many of us. I know what that's like, when nothing you accomplish is ever enough for some, including relatives. That's when you've gotta find your self-esteem and say eff it. Nobody on Earth can make you happy if you're not happy to begin with. It's just like love. If you don't love yourself, you won't find that with anybody else. Believe me, it took me until my mid-twenties to feel that way about myself. It won't happen overnight, but it will happen if you allow it to.
Not knowing who you are at fifteen is not unusual. As long as you're living and growing, you will go through transformation periods. No matter what though, always be true to yourself☺.